Loving our Ireland Rose: Bad start to the day....but its not the end of the world

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Bad start to the day....but its not the end of the world

This is Mike.. or Mikey as Chanda would say.. Well we get up at 430 and get ready to head on down for the big day... get in the car and start down the road and call the U like they wanted us too and here someone changed or schedule from 6 am to 1230 pm!!!! Chanda is soooo upset and pissed right now... I'm really surprised the lady on the phone didn't get the devil treatment!! But its just a minor thing in the big process... we have come back home to hopefully get a little more shut eye and start the journey all over again..... will post more later...

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Kathryn OlmsteadAugust 18, 2009 at 7:34 AM
Good luck!!!!! We are praying for all to be well with Chanda and Ireland!
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bobdobleAugust 18, 2009 at 7:41 AM
So sorry to hear that you got bumped! So tough when your emotions and everything is already so high! Goodluck today, and I'm praying for ur little fighter!
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Tracy MeatsAugust 18, 2009 at 8:05 AM
So sorry you started out the day this way, but God works in mysterious ways. Have faith that 12:30 will be the perfect time to get the ball rolling!! They should have called you though!! Hang in there, today is still going to be a great day...you will very soon meet your little girl and you have friends and family all over the globe praying for Ireland and your family!! Go Ireland Go!! Chanda, hope you have an easy recovery and you were able to get a morning nap in.

Thinking of you today, Tracy
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Tracy MeatsAugust 18, 2009 at 8:09 AM
P.S. Mike and Tristan we are thinking and praying for you too today!! Stay strong for the most 2 beautiful women in your life need your strength and support today. I am sure you are nervous and scared to be a dad and a big brother, but once you see Ireland, you are going to know that you just received the best present today...a little girl that will forever be part of you.
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Christmas with KaseyAugust 18, 2009 at 9:36 AM
Thinking of you and your family today!
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AnonymousAugust 18, 2009 at 9:47 AM
Praying, praying, praying.......
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Candice and Rob BealAugust 18, 2009 at 10:07 AM
oh man! i'm praying for you! all my emotions are coming back from when i went in......i'm praying
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Liz and ShaneAugust 18, 2009 at 11:44 AM
I hope you are able to get some more sleep before you go into the hospital. Praying for you
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Craig and Kristi KuehlAugust 18, 2009 at 11:44 AM
Please, please, please keep us updated! Praying hard for you all today. Much LOVE from CA!
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What is Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia?

"Congenital" means "born with." The diaphragm is the breathing muscle that separates the chest cavity and the abdominal cavity. The diaphragm develops when the fetus is about two months old. Congenital diaphragmatic hernia (CDH) is the absence of the diaphragm, or a hole in the diaphragm. This can occur on either the left or right side, but is most common on the left. (Ireland's is on the left.) The contents of the abdomen, including the stomach, intestines, liver and spleen, may go through the hole and into the chest. The contents prevent the normal development of the lung (pulmonary hypoplasia) on that side, and may affect the growth of the other lung. After birth the infant will have difficulty breathing if the lungs are not developed enough.

Why is CDH of concern?

The lungs are developing at the same time as the
diaphragm and the digestive system. A diaphragmatic hernia allows abdominal organs to move into the chest cavity, instead of remaining in the abdomen as they are developing. With the heart, lungs, and abdominal organs all taking up space in the chest cavity, the lungs do not have space to develop
properly. This underdevelopment of the lungs is called pulmonary hypoplasia. A diaphragmatic hernia is a life-threatening illness. When the lungs do not develop properly
during pregnancy, it can be difficult for the baby to breathe after birth. Healthy lungs have millions of small air sacs (alveoli), which resemble a balloon filled with air. With pulmonary hypoplasia:
• There are fewer air sacs than normal.
• The air sacs that are present are only able to partially fill with air.
• The air sacs deflate easily due to a lack of a lubricating fluid called surfactant.
When these conditions are present, the baby is unable to take in enough oxygen to stay healthy. The intestines, when relocated in the chest, also may not develop properly, especially if they are not receiving enough blood supply while they are developing. A good blood supply is necessary for the
intestines to develop correctly, and to be healthy and function properly. CDH is also of concern due to possible associated anomalies, which in some cases may include heart, genitourinary, gastrointestinal, central nervous system or chromosomal anomalies.

Gift of Motherhood by Erma Bombeck in 1980

Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures, and a couple by habit. This year, nearly 100,000 women will become mothers
of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen? Somehow, I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for
propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
"Armstrong, Beth; son; patron saint, Matthew.
"Forrest, Marjorie; daughter; patron saint, Cecelia.
"Rudlege, Carrie; twins; patron saints... give her Gerald. He's used to profanity."
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles, "Give her a handicapped child."
The angel is curious, "Why this one, God? She's so happy."
"Exactly", smiles God. "Could I give a handicapped child to a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."
"But has she patience?" asks the angel.
"I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wears off, she'll handle it. "I watched her
today. She has that feeling of self and independence that is so rare and necessary in a mother. You see, the child I'm going to give her has her own world. She has to make it live in her world and that's not going to be easy."
"But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."
God smiles. "No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough
selfishness."
The angel gasps, "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"
God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, there is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a 'spoken word'. She will never consider a 'step' ordinary. When her child says 'Momma' for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her child, she will see it as few people ever see my creations. "I will permit her to see clearly the things I see-- ignorance,
cruelty, prejudice-- and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."
"And what about her patron saint?" asks the angel, his pen poised in midair. God smiles, "A mirror will suffice."

Chanda's side note:...believe the mirror will break....would request a saint

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